That’s why you shouldn’t write to women at 3 a.m. Also, you shouldn’t be online all the time. This quickly gives the impression that you are just sitting in front of your computer and have no real life, let alone friends.
By the way, the best time to write to women is in the evening between 6pm and 10pm, and especially on Sundays, many people visit the dating sites.
Be careful with your spelling and punctuation when writing to women. In addition, you should NOT write EVERYTHING IN CAPITAL LETTERS, and certainly not UPPERCASE AND SMALL IN THE CHANGE. This just seems threatening or childish. Also, avoid overly complicated words or complex sentences and instead make reading pleasant and easy for your chat partner. You should also leave out the classics like lol, rofl or * grin *.
Many men apologize when they write to or speak to women and hope not to disturb or ask whether it is okay. Avoid phrases that signal uncertainty. This is not a sign of caring, but of submission, which women find very unattractive. Examples:
Especially with the first message, you should avoid overly intimate questions, such as her exact place of residence, her last relationship or even her favorite position. Negative topics are also not beneficial. Instead, keep your cover letter casual and superficial and only become more intimate as the conversation progresses.
You should also avoid covering letters that are too direct or even intrusive. So don’t ask her directly for her phone number or a meeting. Even if you are only interested in sex, your chances are higher with a casual cover letter than with a direct sex request. This even applies to dating portals that are all about sex!
When flirting, many men try to impress and convince women of themselves by telling them about their great job or their big car. This shows the woman that you really want her, which makes you less interesting. It also signals that as a man you do not feel sufficient on your own and that you want to compensate for your shortcomings with external things. Not taking yourself too seriously and a little joke about yourself, on the other hand, are perceived as much more personable and self-confident.
I have already written a detailed article on the subject of attractiveness. Here you can find out what women really want and how you can become more attractive to women yourself.
Individual and funny cover letters are good. However, one can overdo it here too. Your cover letter could quickly seem like you’ve put a lot of effort and time into getting the most positive reaction possible. Your cover letters should therefore not seem too tried and wanted.
Now you know the most common mistakes when writing to women that you should definitely avoid. Before you send a message, you should always ask yourself how it would affect you if you had received it from someone strange. Try writing to pretty women in a similar way to writing to a good friend. In the next article you will learn how you can write to women successfully using numerous examples.
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Lukas wrote on April 24, 2020 at 9:08 pm
Very interesting. Above all, it was exciting to see how other men write to women. I mostly did the same thing and unfortunately I didn’t get that many answers. Hopefully that will change now.
I have definitely just downloaded the e-book 😉 I’m curious!
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